What to Wear for Your Family Photo Session

The Outfit Question Every Family Asks

"What should we wear?" It's the number one question I get from families before their session, and I completely understand why. You want everyone to look great, feel comfortable, and coordinate without looking like you're wearing a uniform. The good news: it's simpler than you think.

Here's what I tell every family before their session.

Start with a Color Palette, Not Matching Outfits

The days of everyone wearing identical white shirts and jeans are behind us. Instead, pick a palette of 2-3 complementary colors and let each family member choose something within that range.

Some palettes that photograph beautifully:

• Earth tones: cream, olive, rust, camel -- perfect for fall sessions at Washington Park Arboretum
• Soft neutrals: ivory, dusty blue, sage -- lovely for spring and summer at Golden Gardens
• Rich tones: burgundy, navy, mustard, forest green -- stunning for autumn sessions
• Classic neutrals: white, gray, black, denim -- timeless and easy to coordinate

Texture Over Pattern

Solid colors and subtle textures (knits, linen, chambray, corduroy) always photograph better than bold patterns. Large logos, graphic tees, and busy prints can be distracting in photos and tend to date the images faster.

That said, small, subtle patterns like a thin stripe or a delicate floral can add visual interest without overwhelming the frame. Use your judgment -- if a pattern is the first thing your eye goes to, it's probably too bold.

Dress for the Season and Location

Think about where we'll be shooting and dress accordingly:

• Beach sessions (Golden Gardens, Carkeek Park): Flowing fabrics that move in the breeze look gorgeous. Think maxi dresses, linen pants, lightweight layers.
• Forest/park sessions (Discovery Park, Arboretum): Richer colors and cozy textures work well against the green. Boots, scarves, and jackets add visual interest.
• Urban sessions (Pike Place, Capitol Hill): Slightly dressier, polished casual. Think well-fitted jeans, a nice blouse, leather boots.

Tips for Kids

Comfort is king when it comes to kids' outfits. If your child hates the outfit, it'll show in their face. Let them have some say in what they wear (within your color palette), and make sure they can run, sit, and play freely.

A few practical tips:

• Bring a backup outfit in case of spills
• Skip brand-new shoes -- blisters make grumpy kids
• Layers are your friend, especially for Seattle weather
• Suspenders, bow ties, and hair accessories can add personality without clashing

What to Avoid

• Neon colors: They cast unflattering color reflections on skin
• Large logos or text: Distracting and dates the photos
• Brand-new, stiff outfits: You'll look (and feel) uncomfortable
• All-black everything: Loses detail and can look heavy in photos
• Exactly matching outfits: Coordinated is great, identical is not

A Note on Accessories

Simple jewelry, hats, and scarves can elevate your look. I love when families incorporate a meaningful accessory -- a grandmother's necklace, a favorite hat, a cozy blanket for the little one. These details make the photos feel personal and real.

Still Not Sure? Send Me a Photo

I always tell my families: when in doubt, text me a photo of your outfit options. I'm happy to help you narrow it down. This is part of the experience, and I want you to feel confident walking into your session.

Browse my family photography portfolio for some outfit inspiration, and get in touch when you're ready to book. I'd love to meet your crew.